A good date can hit the other person’s heart at once, but a date that is not in control can lose all chances at once. The atmosphere is very important in dating.
And to achieve the purpose of advancing the relationship, it is necessary to stimulate the boy’s good feelings towards you from all sides. In the gender relationship, what can be produced between the two sides, or let each other have an emotional qualitative sublimation, it must pay attention to the sense of chic, comfort, participation, design, the ultimate in interpersonal relationships.
If in the process of falling in love, it is inevitable to date, so we know what dating needs to pay attention to?
Chic sense
1, the affinity sense of makeup
Everyday without the power of the light makeup is most suitable for dating, light lipstick, plus if not the smell of perfume. Foundation should not be too heavy, and do not apply too white, to give a natural and attention to the feeling is good.
2, decent dressing
In a formal date with the object of your choice or a blind date, through the appearance of the other party to give a sweet blow, can greatly improve the chances of winning. It is not recommended that you should wear sweatpants and loose clothing. You should wear clothes that make you feel attractive and confident. This way you can show your date the most authentic version of yourself.
Feel comfortable
Two people in the dating process first need to establish a certain level of comfort, and then gradually and slowly get together. What do you mean by “comfort”? It is two people in a piece, will not feel awkward, even if not much talk. There will be a strong sense of comfort, in line with the elements of love warming and new dating locations, the environment is elegant light soft cafe, the local suitable for night walks, comfortable environment of the river, the square and other such places are suitable for dating.
Two people in the dating process first need to establish a certain sense of comfort, and then step by step, slowly together. What do you mean by “comfort”? It is two people in a piece, will not feel awkward, even if not much talk. There will be a strong sense of comfort, in line with the elements of love warming and new dating locations, the environment is elegant light soft coffee shop, the local suitable for night walks, comfortable environment of the river, square and other such places are suitable for dating.
Sense of participation
When it comes to what to do on a date, many people will habitually choose to eat, watch movies, which seems to have become the standard for Chinese dating. In fact, there is nothing wrong with eating and watching movies, but from the point of view of promoting relationships, it is difficult to make your relationship develop by eating and watching movies.
Dating locations/activities I would categorize as “static” and “dynamic”. Static refers to those sitting activities, such as dinner, watching movies and so on; dynamic refers to those activities that have a sense of common participation, such as going on a hike, diy, escape room and so on. Compared to static, dynamic is more able to promote your relationship.
Because in the process of “moving”, you are jointly involved in an activity, this sense of participation can make two people quickly familiar with each other, deepen the impression of each other. Just like when you were a kid playing with your buddies for an afternoon, the relationship is not going to soar, and when you part, you still want to meet next time. And the dynamic activity is simply the best choice for people who are not good at talking.
Because the equivalent of two people sitting dry, activities together both do not have to chat at all times, but also to generate instant conversation, so you will not be “”to talk about what”” the world’s problems.
Make a good strategy
The first date is the best time to enhance the relationship, whether you can give the girl a perfect dating experience is the key to give her a good impression, the lack of sincerity when dating, temporarily thought of dating again let each other have the feeling of not being valued, once not recognized, destroy the success rate of dating not to mention, will greatly reduce our attraction index.
So you can date from the date time, place and specific details to increase the sense of dating design. For example, the two people to go to the appointment location is not convenient, good or bad taxi, will not go to a network of stores, queues of people are particularly large. The date should be diverse and efficient, not just a single dinner and a movie, but “dinner – coffee – shopping”, or “playground – walk”, arrange two to three dating projects.
Share with you some suitable dating places: secret rooms, amusement parks, haunted houses, aquariums, DIY craft stores, private cinemas, ski resorts above dating places can promote the interaction between the two people. This can create more effective contact time for you and also enhance the comfort level.
Choice of topics
First date topic selection No matter how well you and the girl previously chatted on WeChat, the first date is still a new starting point, and if you chat beyond the current level of the relationship, then your date will definitely end in failure.
So the first date between two people with chat, the topic is best to allow more interaction between the two sides. For example, on the first date, it is taboo to chat about personal matters such as monthly salary and family. The best way to chat is to first share yourself and then gradually lead the other person to show themselves, when asking one side, it is better to ask questions with open questions. When the other person shares about themselves, listen carefully, focus on interacting with the other person, and maintain eye contact. Some of the topics you can talk to the other person about are: weather, food, friends, childhood, future, ideals, current environment, things around you, opinions about things, etc.