Don’t know how to chat with girls? When chatting with girls, have you ever thought about what girls are thinking?
In fact, girls think very simple, boys just need to be able to communicate with her normally on the line.
Why many brothers and girls just met not long, or chat not too long, and the girl confession? “I like you, be my girlfriend” “I love you, be with me”. Because he always take the girl’s polite reply, as the girl has a good feeling about himself.
Many guys and girls like together, or chat with girls on WeChat, always do not know what to say, before not chatting, think a lot, think about a lot of topics, but as long as and girls chat up, do not know what to say, either “what is doing?” “Have you eaten?” “The day is cold, pay attention to keep warm”, or is nervous, embarrassed, cold. This is a problem that many guys often encounter.
In fact, they do not do not chat, but meet the girl they like, into the reaction mode, entangled in every word they say, every word, themselves to add their own drama, themselves to their own pressure, themselves make themselves nervous. If you are talking to a man, or if you are talking to a “flower”, you will not be nervous.
To become able to chat with girls, we can give ourselves a thinking assumption, assume that you are chatting with a man, assume that you are chatting with a “flower”, release their own pressure, reduce their own needs, do not dwell on every word they say, every word, even if you say the wrong, the girl can not jump out from the screen to blame you: “How can you say the wrong thing? “How can you say the wrong thing?”
So, before chatting with a girl, we must first put ourselves in the right frame of mind.
If you chat with girls, dating, very nervous, very concerned about their words and actions, very concerned about the results, that the girl social intuition is high, she can detect, and thus know that you the man has little insight, little social experience, even talking to girls are nervous.
If you chat with a girl, can not take the initiative to lead the girl, then your chat simply does not go on, the girl will know that you can not chat, with you together must not be interesting, you can not attract her.
If you and the girl chatting nervous, the girl will think you the man social value is relatively low, there is no social experience, she will not chat with you, there is no will to continue to understand you, has not begun to be the girl PASS away.
If you chat with a girl, as long as you can communicate normally (you are not required to talk eloquently), in the heart of the girl, at least leave a good impression, a guy who can take the initiative to lead the girl through their chat topics, can stimulate the girl’s emotions, she will think that the guy has an opinion, a sense of humor, not just at the mercy of others, to turn on the girl’s attraction switch.
Instead of nervously chatting the girl to death, it is better to let go of the chat and gain a handful of experience.