Many guys often complain that girls are too cold to them, messages often do not return or very perfunctory. The boys who feel good about themselves will feel that the other party has no vision; others think that as long as they persist they can impress each other. Few people will look for reasons from themselves, in fact, girls reply cold, just because you made these mistakes.
One up on the confession
Many brothers always like to confess when chatting with a girl they like and reveal their desire to get involved. Although advocating the brave pursuit of true love, but this approach will not let the girl touched, but provoked the girl’s rebellious psychology, more do not see you. This will put yourself in a relatively low position and can not show yourself well. This time your position is not equal, you are not attractive to her, then the relationship is not possible to continue.
The wrong way to chat
Many brothers in chatting with the girl of their choice, in order to attract her attention, in order to show themselves, so accidentally become a chatterbox. Often come up and ask the girl a series of questions, and to explain their situation is also clear. This will make the girl feel that you are very aggressive. The chase is too tight, will make her simply can not take into account what you said, will only feel and you chat very tired, do not want to continue. After you have said all about your situation, you have no mystery in her heart, more attractive, and the girl will not have a good feeling about you.
Lack of masculinity
Many boys, when facing a girl like, always nervous, resulting in their own merits are not shown, so the girl will certainly not like. Brothers and girls to meet, must be a little more confident, and to have the initiative. For example, when eating, take your own ideas, do not always ask the girl’s opinion, you can choose a good restaurant directly to take the girl to eat. Many times, when the girl is interested in continuing with you, the boy must take the initiative, such as directly holding the girl’s hand, do not ask whether you can hold hands such questions, and girls more physical contact will also make the girl more like you, you just have to show yourself generously.
Do these things, the girl will naturally impress you. Many times girls are cold to you, not to despise you, but your performance is not worth her expectations. So when you first meet a girl, you must be gradual; after developing a period of time, you must take the initiative.